Most people have probably had the unfortunate privilege of meeting, dating, and trying to avoid them at all costs.
If the guy is a true player, then he's an expert at fooling girls and breaking hearts and has been doing it for years.Making Him Want You Staying Mysterious Making it Last Community Q&A Playing hard to get is a great way to get a guy's attention and to make him see that you're worth pursuing. You want to look mysterious and unavailable, but not so much so that he thinks getting a date with you is next to impossible.So, how do you play hard to get with a guy while encouraging him to want you? Playing hard to get for men and women is an important part of flirting.“Why is it that a guy fiercely pursues a woman at first, and then when he finds out she is actually interested he is not so sure if he is interested anymore? For background, I’m 29, live in Australia, and I’ve been on 5 dates with this guy so far but we haven’t kissed yet.” — Sheila Well well.And then his interest wanes and he starts treating her like an option instead of a priority? An excellent question that has been posed by women since time immemorial.